Nurture That Lost Desire
Make more time for sex. Try massage and other acts short of
intercourse. Use erotica and new-for-you sex routines as ways to build
desire, too. Other causes besides hormone changes can strike at the same
time. Ask a doctor about poor sleep, bladder trouble, or feeling
depressed or stressed.
Mood Highs and Oh-So Lows
It's like PMS, only amped up -- crying jags, happy happies, cranky
crankies. These are common in women around the time of menopause. And if
you had bad PMS, the hormonal changes that happen during this time may
cause even bigger mood swings. Yoga and tai chi can help here, too. So
can doing things with others that you enjoy. A low-dose birth control
pill, antidepressants, and even alternative treatments are sometimes
recommended for mood changes.
Head Off Headaches
Migraines can worsen at or around the time of menopause, or show up
for the first time. Keep a diary to see what triggers them and if they
show up along with hot flashes so you can take steps to lessen them.
Eating small meals through the day can help if hunger is a headache
trigger. Lack of sleep is another one, so nap if your nights are messed
up. Treatments vary and can help prevent migraine frequency or severity.
Talk with your doctor.
When Hair Goes Down the Drain
Hair can thin or shed faster. At the same time, it may show up
where you don't want it -- on your chin and cheeks. To save what you
have, switch to coloring products that don't have harsh chemicals. Avoid
the sun, which is drying. Got unwanted facial hair? Ask a skin doctor
for to help wax, bleach, pluck, or zap it away.
Zits? Now? Really?
You expect to have acne in your teens but not in your 50s.
Surprise: It's common around menopause, too. Make sure your moisturizer,
sunscreen, cleanser, and other face products are gentle. Look for the
words "oil free," "won't clog pores," "noncomedogenic," and
"non-acnegenic." Even tough cases can clear with time and a doctor's
help.
Blast Through Mental Fog
"Use it or lose it." That simple phrase can help you fight fuzzy
thinking and stay focused during menopause. Challenge your brain in new
ways. Learn something new, like a hobby or language. Lowering your
stress level can help, too. Women with more hot flashes have more memory
complaints.
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